Hello doston....
Mai aapki dost aap logo ko aage ki khaani sunne k liye yha pe aai hu..
Ummeed krti hu aap log b story me aage kya hua jaanne ke liye baithe h....
Chaliye hm start krte h jaisa ki maine aap logon se btaya tha mere sapne k baare me....
Meri 6 month ki baby h or mere sasural waale ne Mera saath nahi diya..kuch mahine k baad mere Pati mughse Milne aaye mai aap logo ko apne pati k baare me kuch jaankari dena chati hu .
mere pati engineering krte h .ham dono hi bahut mehanti pariwaaro se aaye the jo bahut Ameer nahin the..
Mere pati ne graduation kiya tha ek bar nahin balki do bar pahli bar engineer ke roop mein aur phir law school se unhen jaldi hi patent law mein visheshagyata rakhne wali Mani Hui law me naukari mil gai aur is tarah unka bhavishya bhi sunhara lag raha tha unke carrier ka naksha saaf tha aur yah baat taisi ki jaldi retire ho sakte the...mai b part time job karane lagi
Halaki ham donon hi Apne carrier mein Safal rahe parantu ham Jo sochte the hamare sath theek vaisa hi nahin hua humne Kai bar naukariyan Badli halanki har bar naukari badalne ke Karan Sahi the parantu hamare liye kisi ne bhi pension Yojana mein nivesh nahin kiya hamare retirement fund hamare khud ke lagaye paison se badh rahe hain.. ham donon kafi samay Tak chup rahe aap mujhe yah samajh mein aane Laga tha ki main apne bacche ko bhai Salah de rahi Jo mere माता-पिता ne mujhe Di hamare taraf Charon taraf ki duniya Badal Rahi thi parantu hamari Salah abhi nahin badle ki acche kapde hasil karna...meri age dhere dhere samay k saath bdahti gai
35 sal pahle paida hue yah khushhal dampatti ab apni naukari ke baki din hua mein fanskar bitate hain vah Apne company ke malikon ke liye kam karte aur Sarkar ko tax chukane ke liye kam karte hain aur Bank mein apni girvi sampatti credit card ke karj ko chukane ke liye kam karte hain phir vah Apne bacchon Ko yah Salah dete Hain ki unhen man lagakar padhna chahie acche number laane chahie..
Fir usne aage kaha main janti Hun ki Apne ki main Apne kam karne ke liye kis tarah ka vyavsay chunu aur yah vyavsay chunni ke Karan naukari ki Suraksha usse milane wale fayde ya tankhvah nahin honge agar main is Khel mein sikhai dene jaane wali baten Sikh jaati hai to main kuchh bhi karne ke liye Azad hun aur yah sikhane ke liye Azad hun jo main Dil se sikhana chahti Abhi Tak mujhe use chij ko sikhana padta tha jisse mujhe naukari pane mein madad mile agar main yah Sikh jaati Hun to mujhe naukari ki Suraksha aur samajik Suraksha ki jyada chinta nahin hogi aur jaise ki bahut si saheliyon ko hoti hai.. mere pati aur Maine sath agale dinner meeting rakhen hamara pahla samajik meljol tha fir bhi hamen aise mahsus ho raha tha jaise ham ek dusre ko barson se jante Hain humne Paya ki humne bahut si baten ek Jaisi hai humne bahut se Vishnu per baten ki khelo nath ko restaurant aur samajik arthik vyavastha humne badalti Hui duniya ke bare mein bhi baten ki humne is mudde per bahut samay Tak Paisa bacha paate ya bilkul bhi nahin bacha paate humne samajik Suraksha aur medical ki lagbhag divaliya halat per bhi vichar Kiya.. Paisa ek tarah ki takat hai parantu isase bhi badi takat vittiya Shiksha paisa to aata aur jata rahata parantu agar aap yah jante Hain ki Paisa kis tarah se Kam karta hai to aap jyada takatvar ho jaate Hain aur aap Daulat kamana shuru kar sakte hain Keval sakaratmak Chintan se samasya HAL nahin ho sakti kyunki jyadatar log school mein padhte hain aur vahan vah kabhi yah nahin Sikh paate ki Paisa kis tarah se Kam karta hai apni sari jindagi barbad kar dete Hain..
Kyunki Aaj Jimi ki mummy apni nai kar mein I aur vah log picnic per Apne samudra tat wale Ghar per ja rahe the Jimi Apne sath Apne teen doston Ko le Gaya parantu mujhe nahin le Gaya usne humse yah kaha ki vah hamen isliye nahin le jaega kyunki ham log Garib bacche the..
Is tarah se vah tumhen school mein sikhate hain unhone muskura kar kaha parantu jindagi tumhen is tarah nahin sikhati aur mera yah manana hai ki jindagi Sabse badi hai teacher Hoti hai jyadatar waqt jindagi aapse baten nahin karti yah ek tarah se aapko dhakka deti hai aur har dhakke ke jarie jindagi aapse kahati hai jaag jao main tumhen kuchh sikhana chahti hun..
Agar tum jindagi ke sabak sikhate ho to isase tumhen bahut jyada fayda hoga agar tum aisa nahin karte ho to jindagi tumhen lagatar dhakka deti rahegi log do chijen karte hain kuchh log jindagi ke dhakon ko sahan karte chale jaate Hain baki log gussa ho jaate Hain aur jindagi ko dhakka de dete Hain parantu ved hakka dete Hain Apne kam ko apni patniyan jante Hain ki jindagi mein dhakka de rahi hai..
Dar aur ichcha ki bhavnaon ke Karan hi jyadatar log tankhvah ke check tankhvah mein badhotari aur naukari ki Suraksha ke piche bhagate bhagate apni Puri jindagi nikal dete Hain asal mein vah yah sochte hi nahin ki bhavnaon ke Aadhar per Bane hue yah vichar yah kis tarah taraf le ja rahe hain yah to vahi baat Ho gai jismein badi gadi khinchne wale gadhe ke samne uska Malik gajar latkaye rakhta hai jo uski naak ke theek samne Hoti hai gadhe ka Malik Jahan Jana chahta hai vahan jata hai parantu gadha to lalach ke Karan bhag raha hai cal gadhe ke liye dusri gajar a jaega aur gadha uska picha karne lagega..
Agar tumne apni samajhdari se unhen kabu mein nahin kiya to dar aur lalach ki tumhari donon bhavnayen tumhen jindagi ki Sabse bade Jaal mein fansa sakti hai apni jindagi ko darte darte gujarna Apne sapnon ko pura Na Karna nirmata hai yah bhi nirmata hai ki paise ke liye Kadi mehnat ki jaaye aur yah socha jaaye ki paise se kharidi gai chijen Sukh de sakti hai bil chukane ke dar se ghabrakar Aadhi Raat Ko jagna jeene ka ek bhayanak Tarika hai tankhvah ke hisab se jindagi jina bhi koi jina hai yah sochana ki koi naukari aapko Suraksha de ka ehsas de sakti hai jisse main tumhen bachana chahti hun Maine dekha Maine dekha hai ki Paisa kis tarah se logon ki jindagiyon ko chalata hai aisa Apne sath mat hone Dena Bhagwan ke liye paise ko apni jindagi mat chalane dena...
Han is vichar ko chunkar ki ham kya sochenge bajay iske ki ham apni bhavnaon mein bahkar lagatar prakriya karte rahe subah uthne aur kam per jaane se hi aapki samasyaen nahin paate jaate kyunki Dil chhupane ke liye paryapt Sana hone ka dar aapko satata rahega sochne se aapko khud se ek sawal poochhne ka samay milta hai is tarah ka sawal kya is samasya ka sabse badhiya Samadhan is per aur jyada mehnat Karna hai jyadatar log itne buri tarah ghabrae hote Hain ki vah Apne khud Ko apne aap ko apni baat nahin ho raha hai darvaje se bahar Daud Laga dete Hain Apne vichar sunane se mera yahi matlab tha.. mujhe manana hi padega ki mere liye yah sabak ek Mahina sabak sabit hua yah Janna ki kab koi aadami Dil se bol raha hai aur kab dimag se kiske shabdon mein bhavnayen chhupi Hui aur kiske shabdon mein vichar yah ek Aisa sabak hai jo jindagi bhar mere kam aaya khaskar per tab jab main Apne dil se yani apni bhavnaon se bol raha tha na ki Apne vichar ya dimag se...
Jo yah Raha Mera tark hala ki jyadatar log mujhe mujhse sahmat nahin honge kyunki Ghar ek bhavnatmak chij hoti hai aur jab paise ka sawal aata hai to bhavnayen paise ki samajh ko Hara deti hai mujhe vyaktigat Anubhav se pata hai ki Paisa har faisle ko bhavnatmak banaa deta hai.. agar aap yah faisla kar bhi le ki aap apne kam se kam rakhenge fir bhi aapko yah nahin pata hota ki aapke Lakshya ko kis tarah se nirdharit kiya jaaye jyadatar log Apne profession ko banae rakhna chahte hain aur apni tankhvah ke sahare sampatti banana chahte Hain...
Jyadatar log Aksar ichcha jagne per Bina soche samjhe jaate Hain aur karj per karya Vilas taki koi ek chij khareed late Hain ho sakta hai vah ki vah jindagi se UG chuke ho ya unhen sirf ek naye khilaune ki jarurat Ho karj per Vilas Tak chij kharidne se der se ber vah aadami use chij se chadhne lagega kyunki uske Karan Jo kar diya Gaya hai vah ek bar ban jaega..
Ek bar aap apne business ko banane usmein nivesh karne ka samay nikal lete Hain to fir aap usmein Jadu ki chhadi ghuma sakte hain Jo amiron ka sabse bada Rahasya hai yah Raj amiron ki bheed mein Sabse aage rakhta hai apne kam se kam rakhne ka inam jo aapko use rah per chalane ke liye milta hai jis per Amir log chalte Hain..
Unka sangathan utna hi bada hota jata hai Sarkar mein jitna bada unka sangathan hota hai utna hi jyada Samman bhi diya jata hai dusri taraf mere sangathan mein main jitne kam logon ko rakhun aur jitna kam Paisa kharch Karun niveshak Mera utna hi jyada Samman karte isliye main sarkari aadmiyon ko pasand nahin Karti unke Lakshya business ke jyadatar logon se hatkar hote hain जैसे-जैसे Sarkar ke karmchari bharate hue tankhvah dene ke liye utane hi jyada tax ki jarurat hoti hai. Mera Paisa aur jyada Paisa kamane ke liye Kadi mehnat kar rahi thi meri sampatti wale colum ka har EK badhiya karmchari tha jiski Kadi mehnat ke Karan aur jyada karmchari taiyar hote the aur vah sab milkar Apne Boss per ek naye kar tohfe mein de dete the vah bhi tax chhupane ke pahle...
Ham sabhi ke bhitar ek Bahadur Pratibha Tali aur jokhim wale Lene wala Charitra maujud hota hai parantu ham sabhi ke bhitar Charitra ka ek dusra pahlu bhi hota hai jo Apne ghutne take kar jarurat padane per bhej bhi mang sakta hai donon mein se kisi Ko bhi Bura nahin kaha ja Sakta
Main Apne dwara ki gai har chij ki anushansa nahin karti udaharan Keval udaharan hai Aksar agar bahut jatil hai aur main nivesh Ko nahin samajh paati Hun to main nivesh nahin karti hun paise ke bare mein nirnay Lene se hamen Keval sadharan ganit aur common sense ki jarurat hoti hai..
Aap sabhi ko do mahan uphar diye gaye the aapka dimag aur aapka samay yah aapke hath mein hai ki aap Inka manchaha upyog kar sakte hain aapke hath mein Apne aane wale paison se aapko aur Keval aapko bahut takat mil jaati hai jo aapki takdeer bana diya bigadati hai agar aap ise murkhtapurn tarike se kharch karte Hain to aap Garib Rahane ka vikalp chunte Hain agar aap ise Dayton per kharch karte Hain to aap Madhya varg mein Bane Rahane ka vikalp milte Hain agar aap ise Apne dimag mein nivesh karte to hai dekh lete Hain ki kis tarah sampattiyon ko banaya jata hai aur daulatmand hone ke sath aap Amir Garib ya madhyam vargiya hone ka vikalp chunte Hain agar aap is gyan ko Apne bacchon ke sath bantane ka vikalp chunte Hain to aap unhen is duniya ke liye taiyar karne ka vikalp chunte Hain Jo unka intezar kar rahi hai koi aur nahin Karega aap aur aapke bacchon ka chunav ka nirbhar karta hai jo aap Aaj karte hain aane Wale cal mein nahin.
Aisa kuch mere saath me ghatna ghati tb mai apne spno se jaagi or mughe aishas hua ki abhi Jo kuch b Maine dekha vo ek spna tha ..
Phir mai apne beti k saath me nai zindgi ki shuruat kr ri thi ..phir se wahi doctor banne ka spna meri aankho me tha..abhi b mera doctor bnane ka safar pura nahi hua or mai niraash hoke waapas apne ghar aa gai....aage kya hua mere saath me mai. Doctor ban b paai ya nahi aage ki kahani me aapko sunana chahti hu dosto....