So my dear friend you must have heard - "old is boring, new is scoring- until it's not"
Ah, the sweet thrill of novelty ! A new person enters your life, say two fancy sentences, and suddenly they're your life coach, soulmates, and spiritual guru – all in one. The poor old friend who knew your every mood swing? Well congratulations, they've just been archived like an expired WhatsApp group. Because obviously, excess of everything is bad, right? Even loyalty, apparently. May be the new one gives them attention, validation, and may be a discount coupon.
But oh wait….. fast forward a little. When the new one stars showing their colors(they are also human being) then your brain suddenly starts playing an old melody:
"pehle wala theek tha yaar…."
Don't replace people like phones wallpaper- you might miss the one who actually new your password.
"Old relationship are like books – the more you revisit them ,the deeper they make sense. New ones are just flashy covers"
Perceptions on friendship
I don't understand how a single person can have the same stage of so many friends .Being very honest I have only 2 friends but these are of not benefits. They are my true friends who understand me a lot. Who console me at my bad time. Who motivated me at the low time of my life. but I have other connections as well but not of that stage. Might be the reason can be that I can not be sweet to everyone. And yam of course sweetness is harmful for our health. so I would like to be "bitter gourd" atleast it is beneficial for our health. Even I agreed to that statement "the one who is everyone's friend is no one's true friend". but all these thing vary from person to person . But bitter gourd does not refer that if someone is trying to telling something right or either your mistake then you start chappar- chappar(argue). Instead of this you first need to understand the difference between right or wrong. Mostly people used to react without understand the fact as a result thing get worse and after some days when they realized their mistake at some point when the same thing is being done with them by someone then they realized their mistake that they also did something wrong with someone but till that it get too late. personally I have realized that karma is like a boomberg- what you give, you get.
If you spread kindness, it returns to you in peace. If you hurt others, life eventually mirrors that back. It may not be instant, but karma never forgets. Your action plant seeds- sooner or later, you'll harvest what you've sown and don't worry about revenge- karma is basically life's unpaid intern doing background checks. Remember that all the days will not remain same sometimes it they are full of joy sometimes full of sorrow so basically it is the process that how life goes . everyone had to pass through it. I have sawn the conversion of rich people into poor one and poor one into rich.so you never remain on the same page. daily you will face new challenges and you have to overcome them in such a way that your best version came out. Never afraid with challenges because challenges are not roadblock, they are tests. They come to make you stronger not weaker. Fear gives them power- courage takes it back. Every tough phase you survive become a story of strength. Don't run from challenges- face them, learn from them ,and show them who's boss. handle the challenges like pro with chai in one hand and relatives on the other.
I once believed that correcting people when they lied was my responsibility. I thought speaking the truth would give me peace, maybe even make me feel proud. For a while, it did. But with time, I realized that constantly fixing others only drained my energy. It didn't change them—it only tired me.
Now, I choose a different silence. I listen carefully. I nod. I trust what people say, not because I truly believe them, but because believing is easier than arguing. If living inside their own stories helps them sleep better at night, I let them live there. I no longer try to pull them out of their illusions. After all, it is their choice, not my duty.
Still, lies have a habit of returning. One lie might pass unnoticed, but when dishonesty becomes frequent, it starts leaving a mark. A quiet negativity settles in the mind. You begin to feel uncomfortable, even when you don't react. Repeated lies cannot be ignored forever. They slowly build distance—softly, without warning—until trust feels weaker than before.
Over time, doubt replaces belief. Every sentence they speak is questioned. Every explanation sounds rehearsed. Even when they speak the truth, it no longer feels convincing. Their real efforts and genuine achievements lose their shine, not because they are false, but because too many lies came before them.
In the end, lies don't just damage relationships; they damage credibility. A person who lies too often ends up hurting their own truth. What once deserved respect becomes something people smile at politely, unsure whether to believe it or not. And that is the quiet tragedy of dishonesty—it turns truth into doubt and respect into disbelief, without making a sound.