Compatibility is the most important.
The two respect each other like honored guests, each managing the household, taking care of parents, and attending to children, thus relieving him of any worries so he can wholeheartedly pursue his ideals and ambitions.
If he had married the Commandery Princess, he would likely have to devote a considerable amount of energy to family matters, and even then, it might not be enough, eventually leading to discord and growing resentment, with constant disputes.
Watching her brother like this, Xie Wanqing thought she seemed to understand Lu Ziyuan's thoughts from her previous life a bit more.
During those two years in her dream, he was always busy, preoccupied with pursuing his ideals and ambitions. It seemed that men all have such aspirations and are unwilling to be ordinary, turning their hands to create clouds and rain, manipulating political tactics, so busy that he couldn't see the torment she endured in the rear courtyard.
