Mu Qiu used to think that the development of feelings is such a terrifying thing.
When you first fall in love, you hold hands and kiss. During the passionate stage, you have intimate physical contact. When you cohabit, you enter each other's lives.
In these stages, you might discover that you dislike his/her clothing, skin contact, living habits, personality, and temperament. When these dislikes accumulate, the relationship changes, and interacting becomes exhausting.
Not to mention, turning the relationship into marriage.
They hide these dislikes and incompatibilities, each standing in the positions of husband and wife, losing the freshness of love, treating each other as long-term and cheap life partners.
One day, they will erupt into arguments, slowly wearing down the hard-earned affection. Then, in this emotional erosion, they have children, transferring their remaining love and reluctance to the next generation.
Such a terrifying and difficult-to-change development.
