"Actually, Aunt Wan's attitude has already softened a bit. She spent the afternoon at our house, chatting with my mother and grandmother, saying she's come to understand a lot.
She's actually worried that because of her opposition, you're now being so insistent, which might lead to you only seeing the future brother-in-law's strengths and overlooking his flaws.
I think you should really ponder over it yourself, whether Aunt Wan's words hit the mark. If they did, then pay more attention in the future; if not, then that's even better.
However, regardless of how things are, you should definitely have a good chat with Aunt Wan, let her know your thoughts, so she doesn't keep worrying anxiously.
Back then, Aunt Wan and Uncle Wan's story, which I believe you already know, she's once bitten twice shy, even though this analogy might not be very kind, but that's the truth, right?"
